To Get Your Ex Back - The 'Sex With Your Ex' Route
May Not Be A Good Idea!
by Emma Audley
If you are under the impression that
to get your ex back, triggering
the sexual urge in your ex could be the most fail-proof approach, think again. Despite the fact that physical
intimacy is one of the strongest bonds between a man and a woman that add durability to a relationship,
perspectives do change after a break up. In fact, sex with your
ex, may throw all your efforts to get your ex
back to the
There could be two reasons why you are thinking
of having sex with your ex: you
miss the intimacy and want to recapture those special moments; your supreme confidence on your sexual prowess
pushes you to believe that this can be the best bait for your ex to come back to you. You are wrong, both
Sex with your ex after a break up cannot remain the same, because the mind involved has changed. If your aim
to get your ex back is based on
grounds of mutual love and respect, then stay out of sex at all costs. Here’s why:
A loving relationship cannot survive merely on
sex, though it is an integral part of the relationship. Having sex with
your ex before other issues are resolved could only complicate matters
further. Keep sex on hold till other matters are worked out amicably.
Sex has no role to play when you are trying
to get your ex back. It may
soothe frayed tempers temporarily, but does it resolve the core issues that have ruined the relationship? You would
be foolish to consider sex as a reward or a motivator to get your ex
- Sex may not have anything to do with love, though in an
intimate relationship it does play a contributory role. You would fail to communicate your true feelings of
love by having sex with your ex. Neither does sex express your commitment to the relationship nor does it communicate
what your true intentions are – to get your ex
- It is quite possible that sex with your ex ends up giving your ex completely
wrong signals! That you are dumb and only good in bed; that you are only after his or her body; that you are
too stupid to understand any of the finer nuances of love and togetherness, and more.
- As strange as it may sound, sex while the relationship
is going strong can be a great catalyst for better understanding of each others’ needs, etc. But after a
breakup, when you are desperately trying to get your ex
back, the same physical act can turn into something that is
considered manipulative, coercive and misleading.
- In fact, having sex with your ex could also be misconstrued as one
of the compelling reasons why you are trying to get your ex
back. This can be very hurting to you, and if you had taken the
initiative of having sex with your ex in the first place, this can completely jeopardize your future efforts
to get your ex back.
- Finally, if you want to get your ex back, because you do not want anything
to disrupt the physical intimacy you shared and there are no other reasons that you can think of, perhaps you
need to get out of the relationship as soon as possible. No relationship can survive long-term if it is based
purely on physical attraction.
In conclusion, no matter how attractive the
proposal is to have sex with your ex and no matter how conveniently you can organize such opportunities to enjoy some close
physically intimate moments, you could be completely ruining your chances to get your ex back, if you encourage this idea in your
Your primary task before
you get your ex
back is to resolve the
issues complicating the relationship. Bringing sex into the picture, before the mental wounds are healed
could only complicate the injuries further.
your ex back, staying out of sex for the moment could be best way for
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